My dad was discharged from the hospital yesterday, after a 10 day stay, thanks to a broken hip and post-surgical complications. Other than Saturday & Sunday, I was there to offer a familiar face and guidance on “where we go from here.” It was stressful and exhausting and a privilege to show up for him when he has provided for me, my entire life.
But my kids missed me. They love their grandpa and knew I was with him, but they also wanted their mom.
So when I poked my head into Harper’s room late last night, she wore a wide smile, with a shine in her eyes. I asked, “Did something happen?” Fully expecting her to tell me some incredible news.
She simply replied, “No, I’m just happy to see you.”
It stopped me in my tracks because it truly is that simple.
We show up for the people in our life. Even when we don’t have all of the answers or know what to do. Just our presence could make their day, like it did my dad and Harper’s.
And there’s no substitute for that.
