I am not a winning Coach.
The loss this weekend shattered me when, with good intention, my husband commented of the other team, “They were coached well.”
They were. It was the God’s-to-honest truth.
Their coach was intentional, level-minded and strategic.
His girls performed to his expectations without much fanfare.
Meanwhile, I’m looking my worst player in her eyes and telling her I see her.
I see her insecurities, worry and anxiety.
I know she doesn’t feel good enough and at the end of the day, I want her to feel, she’s more than good-enough. She’s her best.
It’s me.
I see me.
I was never good enough and all I ever wanted was for someone to tell me I was.
I am not a winning coach.
But to someone, I matter.
They matter.