I had been in labor for 37 hours when my mom entered the room and walked straight to my husband, with a breakfast sandwich, exclaiming, “You must be so tired.”

My husband was so confused.

She had not acknowledged me or the baby. 

And I guess that’s what I want people to know. 

Privilege comes in many forms. 

Imagine sand.

Some of us build from a deeper hole. 

And yet, we’re on the same team.